Do you feel negative vibes from certain people?


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Does it happen with you that you meet or know a person, and you tend to feel that they are not your well-wishers, or are cunning or something similar? It can be an intuitive perception or a delusion on your part, but then you just feel uncomfortable in there presence, even though there is no solid proof for you to breed such harsh and sceptic perception towards someone? 🤔 Does it happen with you? If it does, what do you think is the reason behind it?

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As a result of the Sadhana I've done, a person appears much more than just "a person" now. I feel three things in every single person's presence. In order:

  • First - I sense Divinity in them - which I call the Divine Mother
  • Second - I sense a Pure Child-like form of them
  • Third - I sense the emotion of their action

 

At that third stage, I sense positive and negative vibes from pretty much everyone. That's because we all have our positive and negative moments. 

A person may write or say - I Love You. Still, if that person feels jealousy or some other negative emotion when writing those words, I sense their negativity. Similarly, if a person interacts with me with love, I can sense that too. 

Initially, when I started writing at osme, I struggled a lot with this. Due to this, I had kept my comments closed and even attempted to quit the forum a ton of times. But, Swami had encouraged me to write, and I wanted to stay true to that. So, I came back each time. 

Finally, Swami emailed me a method to deal with this. Swami wrote, "When someone approaches you with negativity, remember their Pure Child-like form and then forgive them immediately."

(Note: I've modified Swami's words a bit to maintain his privacy and to make this suitable for the general audience.)

Following Swami's guidance, I've been trying to do that with everyone. Sometimes I find it difficult to forgive, but I try my best. My life is a lot better now. Still, I have to meditate and chant each day to remove the effects of interacting with people.

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I wish I could answer your question Nalin, bit the truth is I am not a very social Person. But by her grace, every single person in my life is a wonderful blessing

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I just meet everyone knowing that the divine that guides my way is the ultimate power in the world. That frees my up from working about any harm anyone can cause me.

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I don't really from the beginning, Nalin. But I know someone who does:)

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Dear Nalin, sorry can not reply. Until I interact with someone, no vibe is felt. 😊. Generally everyone seems okay to me in the beginning. By and by as we get to know them only then some vibes built up on both sides. 😊😊😊

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Yes I always experience this. There are people who call me with all sweet names , send me this cute notes but I don't know why I feel they don't mean it. Sometimes I can sense if someone is hiding something or lying. Radhekrishna

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I think I get vibes. Previously I used to judge people based on this, but now when I come in contact with someone giving out (what people would call) negative vibes it makes me smile as I feel this person is being ignorant at the same time it doesn't ignite any negative emotion in me(like an ignorant child doing something he/she shouldn't be indulging in, we just smile). Also it makes me very happy and pleased when I sense goodness in people around. Moreover, what I have noticed is (especially when I am doing some Devi sadhana), every girl/woman around me is so caring towards me, even if I meet them as a stranger on road. I feel the grace of Maa in their care and sentiments:)

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Yes. Many a times I have felt and with some people around it's more. I try to avoid them thinking our frequency is different. When I am forced to work with them,  I feel drained out and tired. I don't have any reason why it happens

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Yes always from my sister 😥

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