We are all unique. Each one of us has our own intrinsic nature under the influence of the modes of material nature. Different opportunities are given to us to progress. We should choose our path according to our natural disposition. This will result in harmony and peace. 

        Society has its own definition of success. Rather than catering to external definitions of success, we must each define success on our own terms.  We must choose our vocation according to our aptitude. Assume that you are pursuing a teaching career according to your desire and interest. You may see another person in a different career making more money than you. But this should not deviate you from your own path. Being caught up in another’s vocation may not utilize your natural skills and talents, and may result in failure and unhappiness.  

        The same principle applies to the spiritual platform as well. We should follow our own inclination. We can take advantage of suitable opportunities available to us. We are placed in different situations according to our individual karma and characteristics. The Lord arranges everything for us perfectly. These arrangements are made for us according to the Lord’s plan and for our own growth. Wisdom lies in accepting the Lord’s plan for us. 

        In the Kurukshetra War, Arjuna was a great warrior from the Pandava side with a natural talent for fighting. His responsibility was to engage in the war for the sake of human welfare. The path of renunciation was not suitable for him and was even detrimental as he would fall down from his own sva-dharma or natural duty. It would create conflict in his mind, senses and intellect. It could even hinder his spiritual progress. When Arjuna had doubts regarding the path he should follow, Lord Krishna advised him. This is mentioned in Bhagavad Gita 3.35: “It is far better to discharge one’s prescribed duties, even though faultily, than another’s duties perfectly.  Destruction in the course of performing one’s own duty is better than engaging in another’s duties, for to follow another’s path is dangerous.”   

        Do not imitate others, instead look within and act according to your own nature. Do your own duties sincerely.  Keep your mind focused on the Lord. This will lead to happiness and progress. It will enable you to become the BEST version of yourself.